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Old Jul 07, 2007, 04:59 PM
pinksoil
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Caramee put it beautifully. Also with me, at this point in my therapy, our focus is heavily put on the here-and-now relationship between us. I am very, very attached to him. So much that it hurts when I'm not with him. I sort of hate it because it stirs up so many intense emotions. And it makes me that much ore afraid of abandonment. One time I started talking about how afraid I am of termination and I kind of started to freak out, as if we were terminating at that moment. Working on the feelings that go along with that attachment are really beneficial.