So yesterday my parents, Both of them pestered me about not being married yet. And they won't grasp my reasons no matter how I try to explain them, But first a little background

Now my sister is on the NPD side of life and I have always been one of her slander targets, According to her the brother in her imagination has been everything from a drug user/dealer, rapist, child rapist, vagrant, wife beater (note the first sentence of the post above) Parent beater, psych patent, infected with a few std's, an under-aged gay male ***** (You have no idea how fun she made school), cat burglar, and an auto accident homicide professional. Well, you get the idea.

Now I am not the only one she targets, And she is no stranger to calling the police with me as an imagined attacker for any of the above. Or contacting my current employer/school and pretending to be my wife, payroll officer, drug dealer or bill collector... (BTW voice mail is a good thing)

Now, I've already been in the situation where I have had to explain to a girlfriend my sisters actions, And even if they believe you well...Lets be real who here would not run from a potential in-law like that? But well. Here is the crux of the issue. In the past 30 years of her drama I do not think my parents have ever once not ether out and out supported her. Or remained neutral and provided passive tacit support. Hell one day she took my car, Drove to the airport and left it parked in two handicap spaces, And my parents were enraged when I voiced that I felt that was uncalled for.

A few years later she called the police saying that her brother had just kill her, And the only thing that saved my *** was that The police questioned me at my apartment with in a few minutes of her call, And I had lived 3 hours away at that point in time.

Well, I feel better for typing this, I know what she would say If I ever had kids so that is one thing I avoid for in part for that reason.