I would want my T to look at my website. It would give her a chance to be better able to understand me. I haven't offered it to her simply because I don't think she would look at it.

But I've googled myself and know there's not much about me that links to my real name. I prefer it that way. There are people in my past I want nothing to do with and don't want finding me.

And btw, if you look people up on fb, they can find out. It will suggest you as a friend to them...