If you really aren't wanting children in the near future then be honest with her. If she is set that she wants to start a family then I doubt she will want to shelve that idea. I know I wanted to have a child in my early to mid 20's my husband and I both were on the same page.
It's fine for you to want to dedicate time into your carreer. Nothing wrong with it.
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