My whole family, Minus my brother is bad and toxic, She told me she was diagnosed npd once when the navy made her get tested (And I still do not know what prompted the made to get tested part of that)
Maybe she is, maybe she is not, She does have the grandiose self image of a npd but who knows.

I do know she responds to other peoples personal advancements as if it was an assault on her life, And I am serous on that, This is not exaggeration I mean if one of her co-workers would get an award she would go ballistic And if she was in a position to write them up she would. At my pass and review in boot camp she came up with my parents, and the loathing and contempt from her was unrelenting,

When I went back to school, Every day she would harass my parents and all my other relations, friends non stop in efforts to get me to chew up my time to "help" her.

When I got a job as a federal employee, She worked her way into being employed at the credit union just outside of the gate. Turned my career into middle school agian after that,

But for as overt as she is about it, I think my parents are worse. But reporting her to the police don't work, She calls in the parents to witness and then all of a sudden it is no longer her taking my pick up truck to the airport, The parents will tell the cops that I did it ( although in all fairness I do think my parents are scared shitless about her)

I'm not sure what she is, And I would love to see what her test results would come back as, Although I do know she is a hateful spiteful, vindictive and highly obsessive and unrelenting stalker, But she is one of those people with a charisma that just puts people at ease. Hell I think it was 2008 we were helping her move (and she is a horrid slob) And I saw a phone number that I knew when I was putting papers into a box, and Its one thing to see those behaviors in the heat of the moment. But I found a stack of phone bills and my brother and I sat speechless for an hour looking at them, She was very literally cold calling every one my brother and I knew. Now keep in mind, I was enlisted, And enlisted in the days before face book, So you did not give someone your phone number then, You gave them your parents phone number if you wanted to keep contact. But I was looking at those bills and it looked like she had cold called every one in the right states with matching surnames of my friends. I'm not even sure there is one thing that is or how co-morbid she is.

But as overt and carcinogenic as she is to someones life. I think my parents are worse.