Its been an interesting year with my boyfriend and Im yet to fully understand him.
He has been on alot of meds and have come off of them all, latest being Proxac and he stopped taking that 3 weeks ago.

Everything is going well, however...there has been a sensitive subject between us; Intimacy.

His previous meds had a known libido lowering effect and now hes off of them all, im somewhat waiting for some change. We've talked about it and he says there has been some positive change but its yet to appear physically. It did peak the first few days after he stopped, but its gone now.

Is there any gentle way I could encourage him more? Also, if anyone could offer insight into the subject for a BPD, It would be much appreciated. Talking to him about how he feels is like getting blood out of a stone and he gets quite upset so I don't pry too much.