Hi, there. I've been spending some time talking with my others about what it is we want out of our future in terms of career, and where we want to live. The only thing we seem to agree on is we need to move out from home. Dealing with the memories, according to our Protector, will be much easier if we're not in that house.

The problem is we can't agree on anything else. In terms of career: one wants to be a professional author, the other wants to start a business, another wants to go back to school to be a nurse. The other wants to drop everything, pack a bag and see the world. And our depressed one, well she doesn't want to be here at all.

Don't get me started on where we should move to.

It's a little frustrating because everyone wants something different, and that arguing leaves us running in circles.

My question is has anyone broached this subject with their others? Have you come to an agreement on what to do with the future? Do you have any tips on how we can come to find a common solution? I don't want to favour one alter over the other. The only one I'm not really paying attention to is our depressed one.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. .