en·a·ble [ in áyb'l, en áyb'l ] (past and past participle en·a·bled, present participle en·a·bling, 3rd person present singular en·a·bles)

transitive verb

Definition:

1. provide somebody with means: to provide somebody with the resources, authority, or opportunity to do something

which in his case, is drain you dry finally and emotionally.......

i sense that you feel sorry for him about this girl. don't. you didn't hold a gun to his head when he picked her. she's his choice, not yours.......don't pay for his insurance. if he is old enough to have a car, he can buy it and insure it.....

freewill, i've had patients who had the same kind of deal with their parents and they are very hard to re-direct. unless you do the re-directing, it's all for naught.

good luck, xoxox pat