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Old Jun 29, 2015, 06:56 AM
Anonymous37883
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Originally Posted by Luctor View Post
In romantic and other relationships, is intense jealousy a common problem for BPD sufferers?

One of the huge contributing factors to my failed romantic relationships is jealousy. I'm completely insecure about my partner. This insecurity leads to a constant need for reassurance. Hypervigilance for signs that she's losing interest, or cheating. This then manifests as controlling behaviour, which as we know, just pushes people away.

I want to know, do you struggle with jealousy in your relationships?
I had a BPD ex and he was jealous all the time. He would make up online profiles and flirt with me to see if I would take the bait. He would go through my closets and glove boxes, etc looking for evidence of cheating.

I was 100% faithful the whole time. He wasn't.