You know what, I amounted to being a drifter, we never could make our mind up. We had no clue as to what we wanted to be. Did do a couple years of college, but a total blank. We pretty much just bounced day to day, ending up where we are today by chance. Of course, we weren't aware of our condition.

I wanted to be an engineer, the Musician wanted to do Jazz, an other wanted straight academics, an other wanted to party, an other wanted to have a band, an other wanted to be a porn star, an other a mother, so essentially, we did nothing but lots of drugs and alcohol.

Best I can say is take a system wide vote, or go with whomever is out the most, and stick with it. Good luck!

-Steve