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Old Jun 29, 2015, 12:30 PM
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mandehble mandehble is offline
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Originally Posted by ruh roh View Post
Idealizing someone can definitely lead to attachment, but not the good kind. There's a lot to be said for a slow and plodding development of relationship.
This is true, and I worry a bit that I've idealized him too much already. That said, I won't be able to seek treatment for at least another year, probably more. By that time, any idealization I have now will likely have long since faded. Possibly, he won't even be practicing anymore by the time I'm able to get therapy. We'll see what happens.
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