Thanks, Sky...I accept where I am now, and have looked back on my mistakes as "learning experiences."
I suspect many of us who find ourselves "out there" without a partner after a long period ( in my case, 20 years with man who controlled all the finances), make similar mistakes. I often marvel that I still have a roof over my head! after some of my mistakes since divorce!
I'm not in such a bad situation, but tiring of the upkeep and home-improvement. Equity means nothing to me right now, and am thinking a rental where someone else is responsible for it would be a good choice!
Patty