Hi Sunny,

I was just wondering today where you were!! I hope you had a good vacation.

Yes, the whole concept of telling our needs is over the top for me. T also keeps telling me that I have to let my husband know what I need as well.

Arrgghhh, I spoke with him today again, briefly to set an appointment for this week and he laughed at something he shouldn't have laughed at. I'm kind of hurt now and don't quite know how to handle this.

I thanked him for calling yesterday, and he asked what it meant to me. I said that, first of all, it meant he was really coming back. He laughed. He immediately corrected himself and said he shouldn't have laughed and I said, "that's okay I laugh at it too."

This was completely untrue. I don't laugh at it. It is a very sensitive issue for me.

We talked some more and he said that I was feeling the work we have been doing on consistency and that it was "charged." Then I said I had to go because I wanted to get off the phone.

What a %#@&#! jerk he is sometimes.

But, overall, I am glad he is back. I hate vacations. I think. I don't know what I feel right now. Just sad.



Anyway, thanks for your response and I am glad you are back too!!