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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
That's why I'm wondering how you all feel comforted (or cared for). But rainbow8 is probably right. I might be asking the wrong question. Maybe the better question is when: when did you start feeling comforted or cared for by your T? Is 11 weeks too soon? I'm used to having an instant connection, so this is all new to me. What's normal? How do you know when someone cares? Why can't I feel it?
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That's a good question. I've no idea how you can know when someone cares. I'm not even sure how I can notice it with my T. I suppose she cares, as a T. But it's hard for me to feel that. I don't have good experience with previous T. I always felt I was sort of invisible and I definitely didn't feel cared by them. Is hard for me to believe anyone would ever care about me (beside my parents).
11 weeks could be too soon. I don't know. It might also depends on how often you see her.