I cant , i think therapy is WONDERFUL ! Have friends that go, but i can't , we have mutual friends and hes close with some of my family, so he would know if i went , and if he knew i was discussing him , that would come up, couldnt hide that, i dont wanna tell anyone when i promised him i wouldnt , nothing bad , just his personal issues... But he already doesnt talk to me and if he found out i was in therapy he would think i was talking about him and be upset.. If i have any chance of him and me regaining our friendship/him talking to me , i have to be loyal. He has my secrets too, nothing bad again, just my personal feelings on things , and has never told anyone!! I cant , wont do that to him, thats why i came here for help.