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Old Jun 29, 2015, 06:48 PM
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Originally Posted by PinkFlamingo99 View Post
Maybe the fit isn't right?

I've been seeing my new one since Feb and I don't hug her like my old one ir anything, I don't really want to. But I already feel better after I talk to her, I feel cared for and comforted and safe. I like that she cares about my safety and seems/says things make her sad. I definitely leave feeling like she cares and feeling way better than I went in. She has said it makes her sad when I am hurting, and that feels good when you're really isolated.

Do you leave feeling better?

Having said that, I miss my ex-T a lot too in spite of everything. I miss having hugs.
I feel fine with her when I'm not upset. I do leave feeling better.

How would I even know if it's a good fit or not? How do I know it's not me with too high of expectations? What if she is the right T for me and I'm just messing things up?
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