My personal favorite is when my mother, who has a very lucrative and successful career, total independence and freedom, a healthy marriage, many friends and takes multiple vacations around the world per year, comes home to me, someone with mental illness who has no independence, no life, no freedom, no friends, no hobbies, nothing but but being trapped in a house all day with my miserable thoughts and feelings - and proceeds to both tell me all about her wonderful life while also copping a passive-aggressive attitude because she has to go work while I can't work right now. I mean what in the actual ****.