Well, relationships have to start somewhere, don't they? I'm in no way nailed down to the idea of seeing this T in particular and as stated in a previous reply, there are no therapists in my area. I live in a very rural community and I'm lucky if I get to see a nurse practitioner once every three months. Yes, I have tried online dating and I'm also not lying when I say that I've done a great deal of research in terms of what issues I would like to explore in therapy and which type of therapy will likely suit me best. Trust that I know my own situation better than you do.