It's not Love Terrie.....it's selfishness.

He sounds like one of the most selfish buggers I have ever read about in my life! Forgive me hun...just going on what I read here!!!! LOL An addict's main personality trait to overcome is always a severe case selfishness. You should see the selfishness in my family hun!!!! Alcohol and selfish Mofo's in my family too....TONS!! I feel your pain.

I am so glad that you never opened that door. It sounds like he came over looking for a 3:00am booty call and nothing else. Had it planned too decided to get drunk first then come over for sex. JMO.

So sorry that you have been going through this. But I am glad that you are working through it and getting past it now. I can see your personal strength and power growing in your posts day to day.

Good luck hun!!!!

ABT