I've never been in a relationship, but I'd prefer to date someone with an MI. I want someone who can understand and empathize with me, but I also want someone with a touch of madness and instability because I value those things. They cause unspeakable pain-trust me, I know-but they make for interesting, mature, complex people.

Have you heard Alanis Morissette's song "I'm a b!tch, I'm a lover"? A lot of people have mentioned that the song seems to be about someone with severe emotional instability, possibly BPD. When I hear that song, I can't help but wish I had a woman like that in my life.