The truth-teller in an abusive family situation will almost always be targeted, usually as the scapegoat child. Which it sounds like you are in this situation.

Please try to feel proud of your courage to tell the truth, even when it means finally facing the facts about your own family. It is extremely difficult and painful and takes a ton of guts and strength to be the truth-teller.

My younger brother didn't see the light for years until our mother finally started to turn on him, too.