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Originally Posted by ameliaxxx
I have no idea what's really normal either. I can't define normal in any context. I REALLY hope she wouldn't tighten them back up, considering they barely seem to be loosened, to me. Omg, I would have a HUGE mental breakdown if that happened... God I don't even like thinking about it.
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I'm really sorry if I inflamed your anxiety! [emoji33]
However, I'd second Skyscraper Meow that it might be good to talk about this with your T.
I don't know how experienced she is as a T but in my opinion, she should be monitoring herself for countertransference (positive or negative) and should not promise things which she might not be able to keep and should not be giving things she might later resent giving (example, my T doesn't offer out of session contact because she says she will resent it later).