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Old Jun 30, 2015, 03:37 AM
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I'm really sorry if I inflamed your anxiety! [emoji33]

However, I'd second Skyscraper Meow that it might be good to talk about this with your T.

I don't know how experienced she is as a T but in my opinion, she should be monitoring herself for countertransference (positive or negative) and should not promise things which she might not be able to keep and should not be giving things she might later resent giving (example, my T doesn't offer out of session contact because she says she will resent it later).

My anxiety is always inflamed... Don't even worry about it [emoji23]

She's been a T for 15 years... She's highly recommended, etc. and in the 5 years I've been with her, she's never gone back on anything she promised. I do plan on talking to her more about it when she gets back in 3 weeks from her vacation. It's been 2 weeks since I last her... I have no idea if she has countertransference or not. I hope she does though because then that means she likes me.

I'm sorry your T toke back out of session contact!!! I feel so bad for you right now. [emoji17]

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