Wow, that's a good record with SH. Really is, to me.

I hope the desire to SH ebbs as you heal.

I really hope my T is right regarding the above statement on SH lol.

Yup, insecure attachment makes things complicated, I don't have a secure attachment style either but there's a lot of neuropsychology stuff on brain plasticity. About how one can earn secure attachment.

I really like Attachment Girl's explanation of attachment and transference.

I can relate to repeatedly looking at T's online profiles haha. I figure I'll talk about it and the transference in time.

Looking at photos and listening to people who sound like her sure beats SH hands down.