Cavaliers,

I think I need to do as you suggested and have a committee meeting to make some decisions about between hours contact with my t. My t uses the words "conference room" to describe an inner place where all parts can interact together. However, to me, it feels like the parts in the conference room only interact with the spokesman or chairman of the conference (if that makes sense). What I mean is that they respond to questions posed to them, but they do not speak to one another while in the room. That makes it hard to visualize having them all come to an agreement. I have to find out individually, one at a time, whether or not they can agree to a certain thing.

My t has never really liked email. When we started working together, and for quite awhile afterwards, my t responded to all my emails without fail, and I didn't think she minded. But farther down the line, her replies got shorter and she responded less quickly to them. After having a few ruptures about it, I found out she really doesn't like getting long emails or multiple emails. So I have had to pull back and exercise self-control not to send too many. In fact, I try not to send any if I can at all help it. I may have swung too far in the other direction, though, because sometimes she offers to let me email, but I can't seem to do it now without feeling guilty because I knew she was a bit put out about them in the past.