He is very close to a family member and I'm pretty positive he asks how I'm doing so he would know because the area I live and the circle of friends us small , once he asks how I am in sure it would get out shes in therapy , I think he may feel guilt for just disappearing a little , I know the therapist can't tell anyone and its confidential so I know it wouldn't get out that way, the guy knows I'm hurt and he also knows he told me something very secret that ties into all of this and asked me please keep it among us , because I think it has to do with our distance and la k of communication and tough time we are going through I'm bot sure I could not tell the therapist and my friend is smart and o know he would panic if he thought i was telling his issues to someone confidential or not . I don't wanna tell a therapist that that's why I'm not going to go to one. I thought coming here I could get some help by talking to others who ate struggling too with this