didnt want to take over freewills posting
but it sparked a question for me
is it possible to forgive and what the hell does that mean
to me ive always said NO
that it was never going to be acceptable
(that my father abused me)
im interested to know what others think

are you able to even consider forgiving ur abuser?

is forgiveness part of healing? since we need some sort of acceptance to move forward.. is the ultimate accepting the abuser... is it making excuses for their behaviour...

im so lost on this
help