Pinksoil,
%#@&#! you
would be an honest expression of my feelings!!
I remember a session, very early on in my therapy when I was angry at my husband for something. I repeated about 6 times,
"What kind of %#@&#! friend does that?"
T smiled and looked at me and said,
"friend or %#@&#! friend?"
We laughed. Thanks for your encouragement. I am thinking that tomorrow's session will be rather "charged," as T says.
Sky,
"Blue" language is the norm in my therapy session. Both T and I use it. Although I must confess, I use it more than he does. He is not offended by it, and I am sorry you are. I am glad that there are %#@&#! symbols so you don't have to read the words I use. They are not intended to offend, just to give my language a certain desired emphasis!!
I think it's important, in a venue like PC, to have the opportunity for free expression...
Remember, they are just words.