I started dating a guy back in December and we've already been through a lot. In February we "broke up" because he wanted to work on himself, but we didn't really break up, we still went on dates and had sex, but then he told me the real reason he broke up with me. He's still married.

They're separated, and have been for over a year. She cheated on him and got pregnant with another man's baby, and he kicked her out. But they never got a divorce. Once he told me, it took a while but we got back together. He promised me the divorce would happen soon, but four months later and nothing... I know he wants one he's just so lazy.

I did some internet stalking and finally found her on social media. She's A LOT prettier than me... thin, tall, blond hair, blue eyes. I'm fat and not very conventionally attractive. It absolutely killed me. What if he's not getting a divorce because he's secretly still hoping to get back with her?