LOL, Echoes-- I play with whatever I have. I often wear long necklaces, so that provides for some good fidgeting while I'm sitting there. Sometimes I bring cofee so while talking, I will examine the lid of the cup as though it is the most interesting thing that in the world. Sometimes I will focus on the the corner of my shirt or something like it's a science experiment, lol. But there are lots of times when I look directly into T's eyes. You should have seen the time I had my little notebook and pen in my hands. I almost made a hole through the paper.