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Originally Posted by JustShakey
I don't know if it's entirely a gender difference. My male T is really good at this sort of stuff - certainly a lot better than I am and definitely better than previous (female) T.
Honestly it makes sense that your T struggles with this kind of stuff given the confusing push-pull-ish boundary instructions he gave you regarding the emailing...
The comment about men being dismissive of those who hurt them screams 'unresolved issue' to me. I don't think men are any more dismissive of being hurt than women, they just maybe deal with it differently.
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Most male T's that I've had have been as emotionally attuned as any female I've known. CBT T has always seemed a stereotype of a "typical guy".
The dismissive issue comment I read as his recollecting how angry male patients respond to him vs female patients. Male patients tending to have an "eff you" attitude vs female sadness over a loss of connection.
He's tough to figure out.