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Default Jun 30, 2015 at 09:21 PM
 
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Originally Posted by JustShakey View Post
Hm... The 'eff you' is just a cover for the sadness - because it's not okay for a man to be seen to be sad. He doesn't understand that?
(I lived with an extreme version of the eff you coverup throughout my marriage btw)
I do think he understands that much, that it is the same feeling put in a different wrapper. But maybe he doesn't??

Our conversation went round and round. I don't think we really understood each other
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