I could find another therapist, but to make the call to set up an appointment? Nope. Calling and making appointments is extremely stressful to me, so it would be awhile before I'd be able to do it.

And calling a sex therapist would be even worse. I don't feel the world would view my relationship serious enough to deserve sex therapy. We're not married, nor engaged (although we've discussed the possibility of an engagement in a year or so). We're from a red state in the U.S. and honestly, a lot of our sexual problems come from being taught that sex and sexual thoughts are wrong and disgusting. I guess we could go separately and not mention we're in a relationship so it's acceptable, but that would be twice as expensive. Not to mention that there may not be a sex therapist less than an hour away and I'm the only one who has insurance.