Tough question - some will tell you that you need to forgive in order to heal and others will say you don't.

I try not to think about it anymore. I don't believe I forgave my grandfather but I can see where what he did led to certain lessons throughout my lifetime. I'm actually grateful for those lessons.

So I know it may sound odd, but I'm not grateful it happened yet I'm grateful for what I have learned and how I have grown from it.

Tranquility