I seriously had tears in my eyes reading this. This is so hard on you and I am very sorry. I send you hugs

I don't know what to advice about the house as I am not house owner but maybe get a roommate for now to pay some bills until you make s decision. Or sell it and deal with a loss. Start new chapter yourself and forget about this. Money is just that. You have family who can advice you?

You'll eventually meet people and a new partner. It will take some time to heal . But it will happen . You sound like a great person and wonderful partner . What happened says a lot about him not you. You are still that same good person

I think you already know that but in your future dating experiences it is wise to take things slower, moving together is a big deal and should take longer to decide. Don't buy property unless legally married or have legal financial obligations. Don't have verbal agreements. If move together either rent or move into property already Owned by one person. Don't buy together Until there is formal commitment or at least some legal commitment of sorts


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