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Originally Posted by lunatic soul
No, Im not taking any meds.
I think I just cant attract to anyone but sometimes I kiss with someone. As I said I am attracted ti someone I cant have.
Im tired of being alone or abused, if I need to choose - to be alone because I love someone for three years and didnt feel anything to other man or to be with someone I feel okay, I choose to be with him.
I cant fall in love, I cant attract so I have to be alone?
I dont want to be abused again but it happened with my last two boyfriends. My friend is a man I would like to be my husband except...I dont want him in sexual way but I was pressed to have sex (not with him but two other men) so its not a big deal. I dont believe in love anymore but I know that its not right but maybe its better then being alone or being with another abuser.
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Being pressed into having sex is a big deal. Please never go along if you are pressed for it.
You don't have to be alone as you can have friends and enjoy life. I am not saying you must wait till the right person comes along. You can enjoy dating I just don't understand how you can possibly enjoy intimacy not being attracted. I am not even talking about love. Just simple attraction. Yes I think it's better to be alone than get on with someone you not only don't love but don't even feel attraction. It is not exactly fair to them and can't paso my be much fun?
I am sorry you fell in love with someone who didn't reciprocate. I had that happen. It should heal over time. Do you have a t you can talk to?
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