FYI, I don't identify as being a pwBPD anymore, but I do like my threads, so I will continue to post to them from time to time.

I still see X from time to time, but he treats me with a lot more respect. Person Y comes by very infrequently, but when he does, he makes obvious attempts to "yank my chain". Ah well, such is life.

There is a new person, KK, who has been a thorn in my side. He came in a few days ago and was just showed some very subtle disrespect. He asked me a question, then pretended he didn't hear the answer, and then asked me the same question again. He talked quietly at one point, forcing me to get closer to him in order to hear, then he pointedly looked away from me while talking, instead of looking at me.

Just before he left, he again got far way from me, and then said a few sentences just out of earshot, and then quickly left. I still have no idea what he said, or why he felt the need to be sure I couldn't hear him.

I think next time he comes in I'll have to be a little preoccupied, perhaps looking at my cellphone, and just stay where I am, instead of attempting to get closer to him in order to hear.