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Old Jul 01, 2015, 11:50 AM
musinglizzy musinglizzy is offline
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Originally Posted by Brown Owl View Post
I don't think she has that right - I think consistency in a T is best. We value it in parents - giving consistency to their children. I think it is valuable in a T too. I don't get her argument, there is a lot of hate and prejudice in the world too as well as inconsistency, but we wouldn't expect that from a T.
Thank you for this, too! I always read about how consistency is important in therapy, but my T believes the complete opposite, or, at least when it's convenient I guess.

Lolagrace, I agree, too.... I think if things can't stay consistent, a warning that change is coming is helpful. Some changes can end up just being re-traumatizing...and that's kind of how I felt/feel in my situation.
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Thanks for this!
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