((((((((((((((celestial)))))))))))))))

You have reached out in a beautiful way to your friend in his time of grief and loss. Since he lost his son only 4 short months ago, I'm sure he is still reeling and will probably be for some time to come. IMO, the next best thing you can do for your friend is to be patient with him. For him to make any major decisions in his life right now regarding much of anything including relationships might not be a good idea. It's also possible that he is depressed and not thinking and acting in his normal ways.

It's good he has a friend in you to help him through the rough spots. If you continue to be your gentle loving self with him over the next few months, he may open up to you more if he feels the need.

I wish you both well!

Hugsssss
J