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Originally Posted by shakespeare47
. And the feedback doesn't start until later when we talk in a second round.
Anyway, I found myself growing defensive after I got some feedback, and I responded by saying something like "I know I'm not perfect... "
I always feel like I betray myself when I make comments like these.
Most people, from what I can tell, assume that they are in the right, or at the very least that their perspective is worthy of respect.
Can anyone else relate?
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What is it about the feedback that is tossing you into the defensive stance? Fear of criticism could be family of origin and worthy of therapeutic work through. Are they judgy or is it lingering from your life?