Thank you both for the wonderful advice and suggestions.

I have suggested that he meet me at the lighthouse park that is a special to both of us from many years ago and I extended an open invitation as I am there every Sunday morning. I made it clear that if he's not ready to see me that I understand. I don't doubt his desire to see me, but I guess he's just not in a place emotionally right now to see me. I think he knows that just a hug from me will cause him to break down and he's probably not ready to bring these feelings out in the open yet. He went through so much trauma when his son died. He didn't see the avalanche that took his son's life. But had to wait hours while they searched for him. I'm sure his feelings about this heartbreaking day is something he can't even verbalize yet. I quess it's best that I just keep supporting him and hopefully my love and concern will open his heart when he's ready.

Thank you again for the advice!
Celeste