I am a cynic, so take my words with a grain of salt, or even less, but do you think it could be of interest as to why you think you could connect with someone who treats you with a lack of regard?

She's wasted your time on more than one occasion, and doesn't seem interested in being a stable therapeutic base. Yes, you can go in and tell her how that makes you feel, but a therapist should already know how that sort of treatment makes a client feel.

I could be way, way, way off base, but it seems to be a common theme on PC that people find therapists who mimic hugely unstable relationships and become highly attached to them. Telling her how you feel is one thing, but expecting her to be a good therapist when she's stuffed up all the basics thus far seems kind of far fetched?