Willowtrees -sounds like you're getting more co-conscious with your selves which could be the road toward "The I". Or you all may like co-conscious for a while and hang out there. It's good that you're noticing these changes are assessing your comfort level.

Or were you already co-conscious? I just thought through your post again and am comparing it to my own experience... Yeah I think I understand notme vs co-conscious... I think former selves might have merged with "I", even while I still have several selves.

It's great when we all can clarify our thinking- helps us all understand ourselves better IMO.
Thanks