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Old Jul 02, 2015, 10:21 AM
musinglizzy musinglizzy is offline
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Originally Posted by BayBrony View Post
The email thing is weird. Why can't she just not check her email on the weekend? ?????
I agree....Email is certainly not intrusive. I could understand saying no texts/calls because the phone goes off. Well, you can choose to check your work Email... I get my Emails on my phone, but I have my work Email notifications shut off so I actually have to go check it.

Well Scarlet, it seems you are ok with these things...and that's what counts! Perhaps it's not so much about the T checking her Emails as it is trying to help you limit yourself and know you'll be ok without contact?

My T was recently gone on vacation, and she questioned me as to why I sent no Emails for 10 days. Well, she said she'd not be checking them, so I figured she'd have a ton of Emails when she came back and I didn't want to add to that. She was concerned, she said, but didn't contact me because she thought I might be trying to prove to myself I didn't need contact during that time, which is why I didn't send any. Well, no, I wasn't trying to prove anything.... but I guess it's possible some T's want to help their clients know that they will be "ok" during a certain time span without contact. Maybe that's it?
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