Hey Sunny-

I relate to what you are saying, and I'm pretty much in the same boat. Binding can be painful and dangerous and if you don't feel you need to do it, perhaps it's not such a bad idea to skip it. However, people do sometimes have such a simplistic way of viewing gender that having a chest prevents them from reading you as agender or masculine. I guess it's important, if possible, to find people and places to be where you are supported and understood as agender regardless of chest size....Having those people who do validate your identity may make it easier to withstand those who don't get it... -Pete