thanks Zilch for ur patience and reply...

i had so many downs in my life. i am ample experience but still i forget to behave wisely at situtations. again after i have become the prey , i regret and start thinking that i could been more careful.. but this cycle goes on.

so far i dont know to makeout how are good to us and who wants to advantages of us.. i lack the wisdom to differentiate btw good and bad