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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
You are not crazy, why he's trying so hard to "sell her" to you is anyone's guess.
Maybe he wants to normalize her so you're comfortable with him being around her daily?
Idk
If it were me I would not enjoy being in your shoes either.
Maybe tell him you'd prefer to live as if she didn't exist. No more talking about her, case closed.
It's what I would do.
And anytime after that my response would be "and I care because?..."
Then I would leave the room, rinse and repeat till he gets the message.
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Thanks for your response. When I talked to my counselor about it she thought he was trying to "fix" things like men often do. Our last conversation (following her sucking up comments) was after a few too many cocktails so all I remember is him getting pouty that I brought it up. Confusing how it's ok for him to mention it out of the blue but for me to want to work through it and talk about it so we can lay it to rest is out of the question :-/