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Originally Posted by Jaybird57
Gotta say that I disagree. I don't often explain every nuance of my behavior when interacting with someone, but if I'm questioned directly about why I did or didn't do something, then I answer. Any therapist I've ever worked with, even the lousy ones, whenever I confronted them about why they did or said something, they always came right out and told me why. I didn't often agree or think that their explanation was a very good one, but at least they had a reason. I never felt that he/she was lying. Some definitely didn't like being confronted and got defensive, but they didn't try to dodge the question or cover up. I know you've said you think therapists are wily, but I haven't found them to be wily or devious . . . just sometimes clueless or not too aware of why they were doing what they were doing--which in my opinion is due to poor or superficial training and a lack of interest in continuing to grow as a therapist. But as we see things differently, I guess we can agree to disagree!
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My experience with those people is very different than yours then. I have not found them generally to be willing to answer and indeed do dodge and cover up.
But my thrust is those people need to explain how therapy is supposed to work, what the therapist is actually supposed to be doing, why they do x or y, and how a client can judge if it is working or not.