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Originally Posted by SarahSweden
It sounds quite heartbreaking to me. This is even worse than hearing things from a T, the fact that she approached you physically. Of course she should have thought about the modality before she offered you this kind of comfort, sitting with you when you cried and so on. As you say your T went through a rough time perhaps she in some odd way got some comfort back from you and then she realised she had come to near and that she had gone beyond boundaries.
I think itīs strong you keep up the work with this T.
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Thanks. I see her twice a week and am trying to move past this, I think she's worth it. It was very heartbreaking though, and I agree...she should have thought about it. Offering something (for four months!) and abruptly taking it away without discussion or any notification was damaging. Very much so. She was going through some rough times with her daughter at the time...so what you say makes sense. Perhaps she was benefiting just as much as I was. There have been a few times since, I've really wanted that from her. Today was one of those days. Wishing for it only makes it feel worse...