I'm a 7, I can easily function without her. I'm wondering what made you go up to a 10? I found the attachment much harder with my ex-T, I might say I was painfully attached. Now I look back on it I think it was because I felt insecure in the relationship, with my new T I am much more secure, so I think I am calmly attached, I don't worry much about my therapy with her, I am less anxious about it in between appoinments.